⸺ A 12-WEEK ONLINE COACHING PROGRAM WITH ALICE HONG
The UnTamed
Woman
For the ambitious woman who's conquered her career but is longing for the passionate, soul-deep love she desires
Book a free 45-minute call with my team, and we’ll uncover what's actually blocking you from intimacy so you can experience more epic love and deeper pleasure.
You can close a deal, run a household, and hold it all together…but your love life is lacking and your body went numb years ago.
Get ready to experience the relationship of your dreams.
Book a free 45-minute call with my team, and we’ll uncover what's actually blocking you from intimacy so you can experience more epic love and deeper pleasure.
If we could hear your thoughts,
they might sound like this:
"I want him to just know how to love me. I hate having to ask. If I have to ask for it, it doesn't feel genuine."
"Am I asking for too much?"
"If I don't do it, no one will."
"I know exactly what I want in bed, but I can’t ask for it..the words won't come out."
"I don’t ask for what I need because I feel like he’s had enough of me."
"I say yes even when my body is saying no."
These are real words from real women in our community. High achievers. Entrepreneurs, executives, doctors, creatives…women who can negotiate a contract without batting an eye, but cannot say "touch me like this" to the person sharing their bed.
Maybe you recognize yourself as one of these women:
You're in a long-term relationship with a good man but the intimacy is gone.
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You love your partner and, overall, you have a pretty good relationship. But deep down, you’re longing for him to look at you the way he used to.
Sex went from passionate to methodical, and now intimacy feels like one more thing on your to-do list.
Some nights you lie next to him wondering if he's even still attracted to you.
And here's the part that confuses you the most: when he does reach out to touch you..your body flinches and you pull away.
Or you're dating again after a break-up…and it's exhausting.
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You keep attracting emotionally unavailable men who have no depth.
Sex went from passionate to methodical, and now intimacy feels like one more thing on your to-do list.
One man tells you you're too much, the next says you're not enough, and you’re not even sure how to be yourself with men anymore.
You reach out to men, you drop hints, you show interest..and you get radio silence. You catch yourself spiraling: “Does he even like me? When will I see him? Why am I always the one initiating the conversations?”
The worst part is that you’ve started to wonder if you’re ‘just meant to be alone forever’.
Or you're the successful one who’s winning at everything but love.
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You've proven you don't need anyone to be happy, but you don’t want to be alone.
You handle everything on your own and you wonder what it would be like to feel deeply supported and cared for.
You want to be met, held, and chosen by someone who loves you.
But deep down, you’re scared of being hurt again, and you want to learn how to let love in again.
No matter which version of this woman you are, there is a deep longing for love + pleasure underneath your success.
None of this means something
is wrong with you.
You learned, probably very young, that love had to be earned. So you became a good girl. The strong woman in the room. The one who always has control. The one who never needs anything from anyone…
And these survival strategies kept you safe, but now? They’re standing in the way of what you crave the most: epic love and deep pleasure.
Because here’s the truth: you cannot achieve your way into being desired. You cannot earn your way into intimacy. Receiving requires a body that feels safe enough to open up…and your body decided long ago that feeling simply wasn’t safe.
This is why traditional dating advice and years of talk therapy didn't help you find true love or feel pleasure…because you can’t live in your head all day and feel pleasure in your body.
The same drive that built your success is
blocking you from the epic love you deserve.
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You could be living
an epic love story.
12 WEEKS FROM NOW
Imagine this is your life:
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Pleasure becomes part of your everyday life.
Your body wakes up before your mind does. Heat, want, arousal, right there in your own skin.
You learn exactly what turns you on, alone, with no one watching, and you stop waiting for someone else to find it first.
Touch stops being something you tolerate and becomes something you crave.
Sex stops being something you get through and becomes something you fall into.
Your body tells you the truth, want or no want, and you finally listen to it.
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You’re living the love story of your dreams.
You ask for what you want, out loud, in life and in bed, and he doesn't flinch.
The real you, loud parts and messy parts, walks into the relationship and gets adored, not managed.
What used to spiral into a fight turns into an actual conversation. The resentment that's been building for years starts to quiet, because you stop keeping score of who gave more.
If you're partnered: he reaches for you first. He notices the shift in you before you've said a word. The distance you'd been living in closes.
If you're dating: you stop editing yourself before the second date, and you start attracting people who want the real you, not a performance of her.
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You become fully, unapologetically yourself.
You take up the space you used to apologize for.
You say no and the guilt doesn't chase you for three days after.
You wear what makes you feel like you, not what makes you disappear.
You walk into a boardroom and a bedroom as the same woman. Spine straight, voice steady, nothing folded down.
“I'm 67 and I'm
becoming UnTamed.”
“I understand men a bit more now. I'm not terrified to date. This is really bold for me.”
MARY COURTNEY, 67
12 weeks from now, you won't
recognize the woman you are now.
This is your first step.
The UnTamed Method
YOUR 12-WEEK PATH
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This is embodied, nervous-system-level work for women ready to feel deep pleasure and experience epic love.
PHASE ONE · WEEKS 1-3
Unmask
Let the real you emerge.
You learned that you had to earn love, so you became the good girl, the perfectionist, the one who's always "fine"...and it worked. You got approval, achieved success, and built a life that looks good from the outside. But it also buried the real you underneath.
In phase one of the UnTamed Method, we name the exact pattern that’s running your love life without your permission, so you see exactly where it came from and what it's costing you now. Most women have their "oh my god, that's me" moment in the first session.
YOU’LL LEAVE THIS PHASE:
Aware. Shift the patterns in your nervous system that are blocking intimacy and pleasure.
Unapologetic. You stop shrinking to make other people comfortable, and take up space instead.
Free. The shame you've carried around it for years starts to lift.
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Before working with Alice, I was in patterns I couldn't see, abandonment fear, grasping for connection, not trusting my body. I thought something was wrong with me. What shifted was learning to come back to myself.
UTW CLIENT, ANONYMOUS
PHASE TWO · WEEKS 4-8
Awaken
Come back into your body.
You've mastered living from the neck up. Strategy, control, logic, you're brilliant at all of it. Your body has been on mute the whole time.
Through breathwork, tantra-informed practice, and somatic movement, you come back into your body and remember what it feels like to actually feel. This is where the numbness melts, and partners consistently say they notice the shift before you've said a word about the program.
YOU’LL LEAVE THIS PHASE:
Feeling. Sensation returns to your body. Not remembered. Felt.
Receiving. A compliment, a touch, an act of care, without deflecting it.
Alive. The sensual, magnetic woman underneath the armor comes back.
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Before the course, I felt quite stunted in my sexuality, as though it had been shut down for a long time. Now I feel like a blossoming flower.
AF. RAVEN
PHASE THREE · WEEKS 4-8
Create
Build the love you actually want.
With the mask off and your body awake, you build the love life you actually want, from the woman you actually are.
With the mask off and your body awake, you build the love life you actually want, from the woman you actually are.
You practice saying what you want without turning it into a question, and holding a no without over-explaining it. If you're dating, you learn to read a connection accurately within the first hour instead of three months in. If you're partnered, you rebuild intimacy that can survive an off night, not just a good one. By week twelve, this stops being something you're doing in a program and becomes how you actually live.
YOU’LL LEAVE THIS PHASE:
Expressed. You ask for what you want, clearly and warmly, in conversation and in bed.
Magnetic. If you're single, you're dating with discernment instead of anxiety.
Reignited. If you're partnered, intimacy that felt gone for good comes back.
Equipped. With practices that keep this alive long after week 12 ends.
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We never stopped loving each other. But intimacy was missing, and I felt the grief of that deeply. I didn't want to look ahead and see another 30 years without that closeness. Being in Untamed Woman changed everything. Now it feels like we've opened the door to a whole new chapter together.
UTW CLIENT, ANONYMOUS
This is what 12 weeks get you: epic love,
deep pleasure, and a woman who
stops apologizing for wanting both.
What’s inside the program
1:1 Coaching
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Direct, personal access to Alice's own mentor, in your pocket, in a private WhatsApp thread. Send the voice memo after the fight. Ask the question you're too embarrassed to bring to the group. Get coached in real time, not next Tuesday.
Live Group Coaching, Twice a Week
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Two group coaching sessions a week where your actual life gets coached. The date that went sideways. The moment your voice disappeared mid-argument. Real situations, worked through live, not theory.
The Love
Transformation Hub
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A full library of feminine embodiment and pleasure practices you can return to for life, built to wake up your body and open your heart wider than the group calls alone can reach.
Expert Guest Teachers
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Sexologists, somatic practitioners, breathwork facilitators, relationship psychologists. The people who help successful women master love and pleasure at a level generalist coaching never touches.
The Sisterhood
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A private circle of ambitious women doing this work beside you. The place you finally realize you were never the only one, and never too much.
Ready to
have it all?
What they send us at 11pm
STRAIGHT FROM THE GROUP CHAT
These women are exactly
where you are now
Adored as herself
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I was the ultimate Good Girl. Never asking for what I wanted, always making myself small. After 12 weeks, everything shifted. I stopped trying to earn love and started being myself. Now I'm with a man who can't get enough of the real me. Alice taught me I could be successful AND deeply loved.
JESSICA, 34
MARKETING EXECUTIVE
Ice queen, melted
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Before this program I was the Ice Queen. Successful but emotionally unavailable, keeping everyone at arm's length. Now I'm in the most intimate, loving relationship of my life. And it didn't stop there: my friendships deepened and I finally feel like I can just be instead of constantly do.
SAMANTHA, 41
ENTREPENEUR
Loved out loud
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Alice helped me become my own best lover first. Within six months I attracted a partnership that celebrates my wild nature. The love I have now feeds my soul in ways I didn't know were possible.
MARIA, 29
CONSULTANT
Meet Your
UnTamed Coaches
FOUNDER OF THE UNTAMED METHOD
Alice Hong
I'm Alice Hong, founder of UnTamed. For 18+ years I've worked as an International Tantra Teacher, Feminine Embodiment Coach, and Speaker. My work has guided thousands of women back to epic love, deeper pleasure, and inner wealth.
But my qualification isn't the resume.
It's this:
I spent years in a sexless marriage. I lay in bed next to my husband night after night feeling completely rejected, crying quietly, turned toward the wall so he wouldn't see, embarrassed that I wanted my own husband to want me. And I was a yoga teacher at the time. I taught people to breathe for a living, and I had meditated my own desire into numbness without even noticing.
When I finally found the courage to unmask, everything changed. Today I'm in a soul-stirring partnership that celebrates my depth, my ambition, and my wild feminine essence. If you'd met me 15 years ago, you would not recognize that woman.
This work isn't theory to me. It's the road I walked. And I've now watched hundreds of women walk it in far less time than it took me, because they didn't have to find the way alone.
18+ YEARS OF PRACTICE · INTERNATIONAL TANTRA TEACHER
FEMININE EMBODIMENT COACH · SPEAKER
LEAD COACH, UNTAMED WOMAN
Joni Tabbiner
I'm Joni Tabbiner. For 25 years I've worked as a group facilitator, keynote speaker, and 1:1 mentor, and I currently serve as a Chapter Chair for the Women Presidents Organization. My approach weaves neuroscience and mindfulness with an intuitive, loving presence, the kind of science-meets-spirituality mentorship that gets underneath the surface fast.
But my qualification isn't the resume.
It's this:
The first life I ever transformed was my own. Long before I sat across from a client, I walked my own path out of a life that didn't fit me and into one that did, built on unapologetic self-acceptance instead of performance. I know what it costs to keep pretending everything is fine. I also know what's on the other side of stopping.
Today, I've guided thousands of women to build that same safe home inside themselves. I'm also the person Alice turned to on her own path, which is why she asked me to lead this work alongside her. If I could help her find her way home, I can help you find yours.
THE NEXT STEP
your breakthrough call
What happens on
Just the most honest conversations you’ve had in your love life in years.
You book a free 45-minute call with my team at a time that works for you.
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We listen. You tell us what's really going on in your love life. Probably things you haven't said out loud before. That alone is worth the call.
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We find the block. Together we identify the specific pattern standing between you and the love you want.
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We map your next step. If The UnTamed Woman is the right fit for you, we'll tell you exactly how it works. If it isn't, we'll tell you that too, and point you toward what would serve you better.
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Before you book your call.
The UnTamed Woman is not for you if:
— You want dating hacks and texting scripts
— You want to feel better without doing anything differently
— You're not willing to look honestly at your own patterns
— You're looking for a cheap quick fix. This is a serious, four-figure investment of money, and 2-3 hours a week of your time and heart
It is for your if:
— You're done settling for connections that stay on the surface
— You're willing to be a beginner in the one area your competence never reached: receiving
— You want to be cherished for who you are, not just appreciated for what you do
— You're ready to feel alive in your body again, maybe for the first time
probably asking yourself.
Questions you’re
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A free 45-minute conversation with my team. We help you name what's blocking you in love and map your next steps. If the program fits, we'll walk you through everything, including the investment. If it doesn't, we'll say so.
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Yes. Roughly half the women in each cohort are partnered or married. When you change how you relate to your own desire, your relationship changes with you. Some of our most powerful stories are women who thought the passion in their marriage was gone for good.
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This is not a matchmaking service, and that's exactly why it works. When you drop the mask and live from your feminine energy, you become discerning and magnetic at the same time. Single women in this program stop attracting the same unavailable man on repeat and start recognizing, and drawing in, partners who can meet them.
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Therapy helps you understand your patterns. This work changes them, at the level of the body and nervous system where they actually live. Many of our women have done years of therapy. They understand themselves brilliantly. Understanding was never the missing piece. Feeling was.
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2-3 hours a week: one live call plus short daily practices. And gently: "I'm too busy" is usually the pattern talking. You've been too busy achieving to receive for years. That's not a scheduling problem.
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The full investment and payment options are covered on your breakthrough call, once we know the program is right for you. It's a significant four-figure investment. If that's a dealbreaker, this isn't the right season for you to book a call, and that's okay.
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Then you're paying attention. Every woman on those testimonials were scared too. You don't need to be fearless. You need to be willing.
How much longer will you
postpone your love story?
Here's what we've noticed after working with hundreds of women: the pattern doesn't retire on its own. Another year of "fine" becomes five. The walls don't come down by themselves. And every day behind the mask is a day the woman underneath goes unseen.
You already know how to work hard. This is the one place effort was never the answer.
The beloved woman in you is ready.
Your epic love era is calling.
Alice Hong
BECOME AN UNTAMED WOMAN